I've talked to a friend just recently, and I really felt the sadness in her voice so I'm dedicating this post to her.
Ending a relationship is hard. Ending it while there's still love is even harder.
There are so many reasons as to why people end a relationship, and there are a lot of ways to end it.
But no matter how you look at it, there is never an easy way to do it, there is never an easy way to deal with it. It is hard to say goodbye to someone you truly love, be it temporarily or permanently, the pain will always be there, especially if its a relationship that you thought would never end.
I could give you the same advice you hear from others but the word "move on" seems so simple, yet we all know that it is one of the hardest thing to do.
But are there ways to ignore the pain and how exactly does one move on after getting hurt?
I guess you have to allow yourself to get lost in that pain. Don't do things that would just ignore it, do things that allow you to feel it. If crying, frowning and throwing things will make you feel better, then by all means, do it. Let time heal your wound. Feel the pain and allow yourself to grow.
Everything happens for a reason. Always remember that saying goodbye is not the end, it is the just a beginning of the new you,who despite all the pain, the sacrifices and the heartaches, was able to go through it all and stand tall.
Ending a relationship is hard. Ending it while there's still love is even harder.
There are so many reasons as to why people end a relationship, and there are a lot of ways to end it.
But no matter how you look at it, there is never an easy way to do it, there is never an easy way to deal with it. It is hard to say goodbye to someone you truly love, be it temporarily or permanently, the pain will always be there, especially if its a relationship that you thought would never end.
But sometimes, you put things into an end not because you want to, but because you have to.
I could give you the same advice you hear from others but the word "move on" seems so simple, yet we all know that it is one of the hardest thing to do.
But are there ways to ignore the pain and how exactly does one move on after getting hurt?
I guess you have to allow yourself to get lost in that pain. Don't do things that would just ignore it, do things that allow you to feel it. If crying, frowning and throwing things will make you feel better, then by all means, do it. Let time heal your wound. Feel the pain and allow yourself to grow.
Everything happens for a reason. Always remember that saying goodbye is not the end, it is the just a beginning of the new you,who despite all the pain, the sacrifices and the heartaches, was able to go through it all and stand tall.
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